Love You Harder

It seems as though, when we find ourselves going through hard times, we look for the answers in all of the wrong places. With any small or big inconvenience, with any confusion, with any pain we may be dealing with. I'm here to let you know, that if you're looking outward for your answers, you will never find them.

Specifically, the relationships in your life, of any kind. I'll elucidate. If you didn't think that the relationships you have with the people in your life had any affect, on your mental, emotional, spiritual and physical health, you are mistaken. Everything is energy. We can not afford to give all of our energy away.

Relationships can be precarious. If you are not implementing the proper self care for yourself and you tend to lack the strength to set boundaries and not allow any persons to defy the emotional barrier that you have put into place, this post is for you.

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Have you ever felt, just drained? No energy, no real motivation to do anything? Maybe you're overextending yourself? Yes? Take a look into it. Still just feeling, blah? Who do you have around you? A lot of the time, what people don't realize is that, the people you allow into your space, play a part in your well being. Those people, will either, add to your happiness and well being, or drain you by constantly feeding off of your energy.

Be aware that there are people in this world who will come into your life and beguile you into allowing them in your space only to take away your energy for their own negative iniquity. The most constituent part of proper self care is to be mindful of the energies that we allow in our space. As it starts with you, it ends with you. You are in control of who you allow into your life & who you decide to let go.

So, if you have people in your life who leave you to feel drained, or any negative emotions at all about yourself, your life, or your outlook on life,love, anything...let them go. Personally, I know it is easier said than done, letting go, but I can promise, it is worth it. You, are worth it.

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In this life, if you want different, if you want better, you have to do better yourself, and show that you are ready for the elevation. Just as it is important that we frequently cleanse our bodies, our homes, our aura, it is important that we are removing people that no longer serve us.

It is not up to us to understand why someone mishandled us or why they acted upon things that hurt us. Longing for answers from someone else is giving them energy and attention they do not deserve from you. The answers are within you. When you start to actively give yourself the care you deserve, you understand that it is nothing you could have done differently, because people are who they are. You can not change it.

When you are tired, mentally and emotionally, of the negative feelings you are holding on to because of the indignation at the way that the people in your life handle you...start removing them.

Remember that elevation requires separation. If you are longing for a better life, a more positive outlook and a higher vibration, everything that God, that the universe has shown you, you need to let go of...you need to let go of. Let people go with the assurance and the faith that God knows this is best, that you will receive better from people who are deserving of you and you them.

With all of my love,

Yanni Jay

-xoxoxo