Soul Ties

Let's talk soul ties. For those who do not know what soul ties are, I'll explain. A soul tie commonly occurs after sexual intercourse. It is an immensely deep spiritual & emotional connection embedded into your soul. If you were not well informed, any time you have sex with someone you are creating a bond to that person both spiritually and emotionally.

So, if you find yourself longing for someone you wish to be free from, or wondering why you repeatedly deal with someone you know you should not be, and you've had sex with them, this could be why. With that being said, this blog is for you.

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Creating bonds with someone is a lot more serious than many believe. This is why it is pivotal to our own well being that we do not interact with just anyone carelessly. When having sex with someone you must understand the responsibilities that you take on. I will note, that if you thought you knew someone, sex would allow you to confirm if in fact you ever truly have.

Let's take pleasure out of the equation. Being aware that intercourse happens between most people for the benefit of transient sexual gain anyway. What you have to realize is that eventually, it becomes more than that. When you have sex with someone you take on their emotional and spiritual burdens. You also take on that of the those they have engaged with. This is also another way to have trauma bonding.

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If you become aware that after sexual encounters with someone your moods shift and you start to become more negative than positive, you start to have moments of self doubt, neglect, sadness and insecurity, then this is an unhealthy soul tie.

It will forever be in your best interest to stay grounded and always aware of the energies you take on. You can go from feeling euphoric to an overwhelming feeling of depression because you unknowingly have taken on demons that were not yours to begin with. Another reason why it is important to have boundaries and be firm with making sure nobody crosses them.

What you may see as someone desirable, can be someone with bad intentions dressed as good. You can take on negative traits of the one you share soul ties with. When you understand that someone is toxic and you feel as though you can not let go, or you fail to stand on boundaries with them, realize that this is an unhealthy soul tie.

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Break your soul ties. You will have to take the time to tend to yourself spiritually and emotionally in order for this to be done. Understand that the soul tie that has been created is powerful and your emotional and spiritual well being is tied to this person. Do the spiritual work. Take care of yourself emotionally. Make sure that you are putting the most high before all. Pray & meditate and enjoy your healing journey.

With all of my love,

Yanni Jay

-xoxoxo